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10 things you learn when you are in a relationship

every relationship is incomparable to the next one you have or the one you had before… or one that your friend has with her other person and the one that you have with your person… every relationship teaches you something new and you learn and grow from it…

10 things I learned from my relationships

1.     you just have to learn to love them for who they are… when your infatuation about this person finally runs out, you will really see them for who they are… so I suggest you learn to love them for who they are before your infatuation runs out… so when you are finally done being infatuated, you can truly say that you love them for who they are

2.     compromising takes a lot of work… you are trying mix 2 completely different chemicals into one… some will mix easier than others, and some will be harder to mix… no matter how easy it is.. it still takes work..

3.     let your man have his moments.. it doesn’t matter if it is his vulnerable moments… or angry moments.. or sad moments.. when he needs his moments.. let him have one.. he lets you have one.. he is the one sitting there laughing at you, congratulating you, or even calming you down… so let your man have his moments…

4.     learn to take his jokes lightly… girls… we take things too seriously sometimes.. and I am very guilty for that as well.. especially if it comes across something we are so passionate about or something we love so much… but note, that most of your guys just make fun of you to see your reactions.. because they love it when you get so mad, you cant utter anything out of your mouth… so learn to take his jokes lightly… but easier said then done… SERIOUSLY…

5.     don’t be so noisy about his past… you have a past… maybe you don’t have a past… he will tell you when he feels like it’s a good time to tell you… ok.. I will make it easier for you, if you cant help it, do it earlier in the relationship… at least you will know you don’t want to be with someone with dirty past before you fall so hard for him…

6.     learn to appreciate the small things… your man cant always show up at your doors holding flowers and a box of gift… he cant always take you to a nice restaurant and treat you out… but let me say those things are the easier things… what it really boils down to is the small things that he does for you… like, remembering to open the doors for you… or wrapping his arms around you when you feel scared… because those small things he does for you means that he is watching your every moves

7.     not everyone can be clean… and even clean guys have messy days… when you are having a bad week, or even a bad month… you really cant help it… your room isnt clean all the time?!… so give your mr.cleanguy a break…

8.     burps and farts should be pardoned once in awhile… accidental farts and burps are bound to happen… let him slide by once… or twice… (idk… I am not really fond of burps and farts… who is… and it’s a turn off for me… )

9.     tears = weapon.. but use it wisely…

10.  last but not least… but most importantly… 3 strong words.. I love you should only be said when you truly love them… do not abuse these words…  

10 moments that make me feel dumb and stupid….

these are moments that make me feel dumb… seriously… I have a lot of these… and it is somewhat entertaining to others, but it is so embarrassing for me… so here are 10 moments that make me feel dumb..

1.     when I fall walking up or down the stairs… this usually doesn’t happen… but i feel like it happens so many times in front of 1 particular person I know… first time, it was because I was just really wasted out of my mind.. so I decided to walk down the stairs.. more like skid down the stairs… with my knees… ripped up one of my favorite jeans… and second time … it happened when I was walking down the stairs.. sober.. after a musical.. oh man… I got up, and just kept on walking like nothing happened… I wanted to hide in a hole or something

2.     when I run into corners… I don’t know whats up with my depth perception, but I don’t have any… I am always bruised or bleeding because my limbs love to run into corners… like… I have the entire hallway to myself, but I am just attracted to corners or something… so I find myself snagging my pinky toe or parts of my body into the corner.. and after that happens, I usually sit there crying

3.     when I don’t make sense… I actually have too many of these… sometimes, my brain lacks filter or grammatical rules (most likely the latter).. and I have these crazy word vomits… and after I spit it out, everyone is like.. ‘wth did she just say?’ and they all laugh… hahaa…

4.     when I stutter… this usually happens to me when I am surprised, dumbfounded, or when I just don’t know what to make out of a situation I am in… so I sit there… stuttering.. and trying to utter away a word that usually sounds like ‘a-a-a-a-a-aaaax2’…

5.     when I snort… when things get really funny… I cant help it… it just comes out… and I snort.. because I try to inhale while I am laughing…

6.     when my stomach growls loudly during a test… you think everyone cant hear it… but trust me.. everyone heard it.. FML FML FML

7.     when I start singing, and I am totally out of tune..  or I don’t know the words to it… but I thought I did.. so when I start singing like an idiot and mumble on… LOL.. and when I start singing at the wrong time.. for example.. during worship.. when I start couple of notes too soon… AHH..

8.     when I lose my trail of thoughts when I am talking about something scientific.. you try to explain to someone something so profound and scientific… then I have a brain fart… so I start sounding like I don’t know what the hell is going on, and I am making things up on top of my head… which usually isn’t the case.. so I look like an idiot, who pretends like I know what I am talking about.. oh boy.. shame

9.     when I send a wrong text to wrong person… they don’t know what you are talking about.. you don’t know what you are talking about… and now you have to feel bad by telling them that it wasn’t meant for them…

10.  last but not least… but most importantly… not really.. but most embarrassing.. when I get too drunk and I start crying… shoot me

Anonymous asked: what should I look for in a boy

i actually did a post on this one already.. enjoy! :)

http://just10things.tumblr.com/post/12911453544/10-things-a-guy-should-be

10 things that are worth keeping in your purse at all times

i don’t know why, but girls, we are made up of trouble… even if our day seems PERFECT, it always finds a way to go down the toilet… refer to murphy’s law if you don’t know what I am talking about..

1.     list of your emergency contacts.. you don’t know when your phone might die.. so stow away list of your emergency contacts somewhere in your purse

2.     band-aid.. if you like wearing high heels (like me) and if you are sometimes dumb and forget to break into them before you go strutting around in them (like me)… keep some band-aids in your purse.. trust me.. you will thank me later

3.     lotion… ashy arms.. ashy legs.. ashy hands… not so attractive..

4.     hand sanitizer… you dont know what you touch throughout the day… keep one in your purse… for your sake.. and for the sake of the others

5.     lip balm or chapstick… I think I must have at least 5 of them I use… I keep one everywhere… one in my car… two in the purses that I use the most… my backpack.. and one in my room… I keep it everywhere…

6.     concealer… if you don’t want to carry around your entire makeup pouch, at least carry around your concealer… you don’t know what can happen to your makeup throughout the day… little dab here and there.. you are ready to go..

7.     ibuprofen or acetaminophen… for chronic headache.. or just for your cramps.. always keep some in your purse… I usually keep one of those individual packaged ones in my wallet just in case…

8.     extra cash… keep around $5-$10 in cash in your wallet at all times… I know that no one ever uses cash these days… but you will never know wen you actually need it…

9.     water… I always try to keep couple of extra bottles in my car when I am on the go, and I also take a bottle in my purse when I go somewhere… even though its heavy, its worth it when you are dying of thirst and you cant find a vending machine…

10.  last but not least… but most importantly… extra tampons…for yourself and your friend that is very forgetful… keep some in your purse at all times so you don’t have to run around like a headless chicken looking for one…

boys always wonder why we need purses that are so big and it feels like a brick…  but its because we prepare ourselves for the worst sometimes… but the things listed above are sort of worth keeping in your purse… trust me… lol 

10 things you should look for in a girl

perfect wife.. perfect girl friend.. those are impossible to find.. why? Because we are not perfect… so why seek perfection in imperfection… but love is what makes imperfection into your perfection… they might not be perfect in world’s standards or to your friend’s standards… but they are perfect.. for you..

1.     perfect girl in your eyes… who cares what your friends say.. who cares what your bros say… it doesn’t matter if your bro thinks your girl is pretty, hot, or ugly… at the end of the day, you are the one she is dating, and she is the one you are dating… so if she looks perfect in your eyes, why does it matter what your bros think.. seriously… but note boys… beauty is only skin deep!

2.     girl that can balance you.. if you are crazy, off the wall type of guy, maybe you need someone that is bit calmer than you are… crazy + crazy = disaster… but I am not telling you to go for a girl that just likes to stay home and do nothing… go for an out going girl, just like you, but bit saner…. Basically, lite version of you… because even though you don’t think so, this difference in personality might be a hindrance in your relationship later on.

3.     girl that can be goofy with you. I am telling you to find a girl that can be real with you and you can be real in front of… without you guys having to judge each others for what you guys might do… everyone is weird and everyone has their quirks… so meet someone that can embrace your weird side, and someone that you can embrace as well…

4.     girl is fine doing nothing but staying in bed with you time to time… dating is expensive… because you guys always run out of things to do, and usually doing things involves money… so meet a girl that is fine doing nothing but nothing with you sometimes… and that doesn’t mind staying up in your oversized shirts and your boxers, and just stay in bed with you all day and watch your favorite shows with you…

5.     girl that is willing to pay for part of your date… I say that men and women are somewhat equal now… but when it comes across who gets to pay for the date… girls most of the time expect the guys to pay for everything… so find yourself a girl that is willing to pay for some of the things you guys do together… we like surprises.. I am guessing that you like em too..

6.     girl that spoils you… I don’t know if its just me… but I love spoiling and buying things for my boy… I don’t know… I like surprising him with homemade meal, a little gift, or even a random message.. but i do it because I like to do it, and I love seeing him smile…

7.     girl that can cook… you cant eat out all the time… make sure you drop some hints on what kind of food you like, so when she cooks for you, she knows what to put on the table…

8.     girl that likes babies… if you like babies, there is no way you can be mean… and they cant just like them… they actually have to be GOOD with them… anyone can see a smiling baby and go ‘awwww…’ so go for the girl that actually picks up the baby when he or she starts crying… girl that is not afraid of baby drools.. you get the point..

9.     girl that can love your hobbies and passion… your hobbies and your passion makes up a huge part of who you are… so find a girl that is willing to embrace that part of you as well.. and a girl that actually enjoys doing those things with you… its always better when you are together! :D 

10.  last but not least… but most importantly.. a girl that just loves you for who you are… girl that doesn’t want to change you.. a girl that will loved you yesterday, that loves you today, and that will love you tomorrow… girl that is proud of who you are as a person, and that is not afraid to show you off in front of her parents or even to her friends..